How do i get over my first crush?

Hi Joane, this happened three years ago, and you still have it in your mind. I know it's hard but this guy didn't feel anything for you. That's why he didn't reply, he didn't want to tell you that, it would have been easier for you and him if he didn't reply. You have to let this thing go, it's been too long already, and don't knock yourself about over it. The guy just didn't have feelings for you, surely you can understand that. I'm sure there are lots of guys that you don't have any feelings for. That's the way life is. And never, ever tell yourself you're not up to his standard for this is not about standards, this is about feelings. You've wasted three years of your life thinking about this guy. If I were there, I would slap you on your wrist. Three years you could have found a guy who would love and respect you. And life is too precious to waste a second of it. I'll say one thing, your one stubborn girl, but you really mustn't waste any more time on this. I can't tell whether you could have been friends or not, I don't know the guy. And here is stubborn Joane still wanting to get over him. I know you won't like this but it really is silly. I know you don't think of it that way, but you must respect yourself and move on. I know that's not what you want to hear, but that's the way it has to be. Find yourself this guy you need, and move all your feelings to him, he's there. And you will know him when you see him and it's the best way to take your mind off the other guy, and onto your guy. Please try Joane for it is the only way forward for your life. The past is the past you have to drag yourself into the present. And the guy you find will have that effect, the present. I really wish you happiness.